Tomorrow, and tomorrow, and tomorrow Creeps in this petty pace from day to day, To the last syllable of recorded time; And all our yesterdays have lighted fools The way to dusty death. Out, out brief candle! Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player That struts and frets his hour upon the stage And then is heard no more: it is a tale Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, Signifying nothing. -- Macbeth, Act 5, Scene 5
Don't think but cancels anything just expands the thought.
ReplyDeleteWhen I took the Dale Carnegie course, they told us that the "but" word sounds negative and to substitute "however."
ReplyDeleteI have a friend who always talks about people like that. Example, "I love Jane, but she (insert anything negative here.) I called her on that behavior not long ago and asked her what she says about me! Without missing a beat, she said, "I love Lynnie, but she is such a ditz." How about that? I never thought of myself as a ditz, however, perhaps I appear that way to others. :)
Changes in the wind -- It probably doesn't mean anything but I try to avoid using it:)
ReplyDeleteLynn -- "ditz" is not a word I would ever use to describe you.
However, if I observed and reported that, "Now that's a nice butt," the first part could NEVER be erased. Ever.
ReplyDeleteI think it's great that you're working so hard to complete the goal you set for yourself, BUT, since I don't check every day and just read the current post, I've missed a lot of your entries. I still think it's great that you're doing the marathon.
ReplyDeleteThe world would not be the same without the word BUT! It is one of my favorites and I use it all the time. I agree with Changes in The Wind - it expands the thought. Right or wrong - I'm going to keep using it:)
ReplyDeleteIt doesn't erase what came before it, but it can certainly undermine it. Depends on how it is used. I work with someone who often uses it to avoid admitting that the other side in an argument has a valid point. I'll ask her to grant me some point of fact, and she'll always respond "Yes, but..." and around we go again. It's VERY irritating after the first few iterations!
ReplyDeleteBack in the 1950s my english teacher also told us that 'but' is negative and explained that 'however' would be a better alternative - but - I always forget that advice and more often than not use the B word lol
ReplyDeleteTake care
Cathy
Cathy @ Still Waters
I think in some cases it pretty much does erase the sentence before. Like, "Nice job, but..."
ReplyDeleteCliff -- We all know how you spell the word:)
ReplyDeletePat MacKenzie -- You didn't miss anything on most of the posts BUT you must go back and see the man's shorts:)
Rae -- The world would not be the same without you BUT it could do without the word "but" BUT you must always do what you choose to do:) Plus if Changes in the wind says it's okay, then it's okay.
Sparkling Red -- Yes, the word can leave a debate going can't it? LOL
cranethie -- Cathy in this day and age of texting "however" is just too long and I'm guessing "but" is used more than ever. All of our English teachers from the 50's would not approve of the new text language would they?
Riot Kitty -- Perfect example!
ReplyDeleteFantastic word that is bandied about in great abundance simply because no one has a spine to tell the truth.
ReplyDeleteThis is a blog marathon, but I thought it was a comment marathon... !
ReplyDeleteIt just adds clarification of some details, or exclusions of the main theme.
G -- You are so right. We seem to always be shading the truth.
ReplyDeleteSnaggle Tooth -- It can easily be both. However I am finding that comments are much fewer as I strive to reach 2000 blog posts by my 7th Anniversary on March 9th. So far I have received 12,027 comments on my 1979 posts for an average of 6 comments per post.
Aah! Thats interesting!
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